Hey, friends! This is the final piece of the “God Writes with Straight, Crooked Lines” series as I close out my final days in the Army.
As I reflect on life’s unpredictability, I’m struck by how much these moments shape us in ways we could never have imagined. It’s easy to get caught up in the discomfort of the unknown, to wrestle with sudden changes that throw us off course. But through these trials, I’ve come to understand a profound truth: God’s plan is often most evident in the spaces where our plans fall apart.
Life is full of twists and turns, moments that challenge our understanding and push us to our limits. When we face unexpected challenges—like an abrupt career change, a complicated relationship, or an unforeseen hardship—it’s natural to question why these happen. We may wonder why our carefully laid plans unravel or are thrust into unexpected situations. But I’ve learned that these moments, though painful, are where true growth happens.
I didn’t have all the answers, but I chose to believe that there was a purpose behind the pain. Slowly, I started to see small but significant changes. I was drawn to opportunities I would have never considered.
Instead of retreating, I consciously opened up to new experiences and relationships. I started attending a small Bible study group, a bonding group with others navigating life’s uncertainties and spending more time with God. Through shared stories and mutual support, I found healing and formed connections that have strengthened and encouraged me. These relationships have reminded me that community is essential to surrender and that we don’t have to face life’s challenges alone.
Reflecting on these experiences, I realize that surrendering to God’s plan didn’t just lead to external changes; it transformed my inner life. I became more resilient, more adaptable, and more at peace with the idea that I didn’t have to have everything figured out. Letting go and trusting in God’s timing has brought me closer to the person I’m meant to be.
But amidst all these changes, there is one goodbye that I know will be the hardest—the day I leave the Army. As I prepare for my upcoming discharge, my heart is heavy with mixed emotions. The Army has been more than just a job; it has been my home for the past three years. The uniform I’ve worn with pride has symbolised my commitment, sacrifices, and unwavering dedication to serving something greater than myself.
The day I say goodbye to the Army will be a moment of deep reflection and gratitude. The experiences, the friendships, the challenges—all of these have shaped me in ways that I never imagined when I first enlisted. I’ve learned the true meaning of resilience, the importance of camaraderie, and the strength that comes from pushing through adversity. But now, as I prepare to step into a new chapter, I know these lessons will stay with me, guiding me as I navigate whatever comes next.
The Army has given me so much, and as I prepare to take off this uniform for the last time, I carry a deep sense of pride, honour, and gratitude. This chapter may be closing, but its impact on my life will remain forever.
Now, you might wonder how to apply this in your life. Here are a few steps that have helped me and that I hope will guide you as well:
- Pause and Reflect: When faced with unexpected challenges, take a moment to pause and reflect. Ask yourself, “What is this situation teaching me? How can I grow through this experience?” Journaling your thoughts can be a powerful way to gain clarity and perspective.
- Release Control: Identify the areas in your life where you hold on too tightly. It might be a specific plan, relationship, or expectation. Practice releasing control by praying, meditating, or simply stepping back and trusting that God has a bigger picture in mind.
- Take Action in Faith: Surrendering doesn’t mean being passive. It means taking action even when you’re uncertain of the outcome. Whether applying for a new job, reaching out to someone, or trying something outside your comfort zone, do it with faith that every step is part of a larger plan.
- Seek Community: Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Share your journey with others who are also navigating life’s unpredictability. Their insights and encouragement can help you stay grounded and motivated.
- Celebrate Small Wins: Growth often happens in small, incremental steps. Celebrate the little victories—learning something new, overcoming a fear, or overcoming a tough day. Recognizing these moments of progress will fuel your perseverance.
“Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be.” – Sonia Ricotti
Now, I’d love to hear from you. Have you ever faced a moment when your plans fell apart? How did you find the strength to move forward? What has surrendering to God’s plan taught you about yourself and your journey? Feel free to share your experiences in the comments—I believe we can learn so much from each other’s stories.
As you embark on this journey of surrender, remember that it’s not about figuring everything out but about trusting in the process and allowing yourself to be transformed along the way. Life’s unpredictability isn’t something to fear; it’s an opportunity to grow, discover, and become the person you’re meant to be
Until next time,
Abby
Authentically Abby 